4 Happy Lessons for the New Year

I like to think of this whole first week of January as a celebration the New Year—giving us plenty of days to get rolling on the right foot for how we want our year to go.

So, in honor of that, here’s the cutest New Year’s Eve song I’ve seen that apparently, oh, 7.2 million people have already viewed. But if you haven’t, watch Zooey Deschanel and Joseph Gordon Levitt sing, “What Are You Doing New Year’s Eve,” and then read the four lessons it can teach us about the new year.

1. Share what you’ve got! I love that these two didn’t keep this private moment playing to themselves. They turned on their computer camera and shared it with us! It’s a great reminder that we all have things to offer the world and each other, and we shouldn’t let shyness or fear or doubt about ourselves hold us back. If you have a song to sing, sing it. If you have a book to write, write it. If you have a love, a talent or a passion of any kind, feed it and share it. That’s what life is all about.

2. Focus on the best duet. If you’re single and seeking a relationship, let this be a reminder that not just any partner will do. Keep your heart focused on the right one—the kind that works with you, dances beside you and sings in perfect harmony. You don’t date your tail off just to settle for any old something, right? Let this song remind you that your other half will fit you so well, you can make life music together.

3. Let others’s shine, too. The healthiest, happiest twosome is one in which you are also independently happy on your own. So in friendships, family, work relationships and love, be sure you’re getting a chance to sing your own part in the song, and give others the chance to do the same by listening, appreciating and supporting the people in your life. By taking turns, it makes the moments you’re singing together even more special.

4. Laugh and have a good time! I couldn’t love their opening moments of this video more. And that’s because it’s clear they’re having a great time. It’s a reminder to me that we shouldn’t just go through the motions in life; we should be living them up and laughing our way through them. Do what makes you want to kick back and smile and then…do it!

This week is a perfect time to start fresh. Focus on the person you want to be. Think about the relationship you want to have. And imagine how you want to feel in work, in love, in friendships. Because that is how you’ll get it all. Keep your eye on the prize and you’ll make the rest of your year the happiest it can be.

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